Trying to figure out my ex & I relationship status. Help?

Datingish Advice » Relationships

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I've never experienced it before, but in my opinion, you guys went backwards to the status of "dating". You say you want to get back with him, but you should enjoy this time of freedom you have because in my opinion this is the funnest stage of the courting process. There's a carefree aura in the air, which makes things more jolly and positive between the two of you, and whenever you are hanging out together, calling/texting each other etc, you know it's because you two enjoy each other's companies, not because you feel like you HAVE to. And if you guys do end up getting back together it will happen naturally and gradually just like before. So don't worry! Hope this helps!
- xoxo 20 points, Level 2
- 3 months ago
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Well it appears you've left the ball in his court. You know how you feel and he isn't ready to be where you are yet. Advice? Shut him out for a while and see if he comes to you. If he doesn't then he obviously doesn't feel as strongly as you do. I'm giving you this advice because I just went through this with my step-daughter. Once she took a step back and did not have contact with him she realized he was not coming back to her in the capacity that she wanted. She grew tired of being a fuck bud but didn't realize where the relationship stood completely until she took control and said "no more" and walked away. Give him time to miss you and see what happens. Good luck :)
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check his facebook...

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