Hi so I am in a position I have never been in before. I consistently date black men, and usually I am very good with making a reasonably positive impression on the mothers of the men I date. However, my current guy's mother has decided she hates me before she has even met me. This is solely based on the fact that he chose to date outside his race. The relationship is still very early on, so I can still end and be relatively unharmed. However, I feel a really strong connection with him. I dont want to be a reason for stress in his family, I dont know what to do. He wont set up some time for me to meet her so I can talk to her, and show her that I am not evil or something... I am lost.