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    I'm starting to like my FriendW/Benefits. What should I do?

    Hey guys, I'm starting to like this guy I sleep with who has told me he doesn't want a relationship. He's super nice to me and is fun to be around and I'm starting to think about him a lot. I've been thinking that I shouldn't sleep with him anymore since I like him and sleeping with him might make me like him more and I might get hurt in the end because i know he doesn't want anything more, but then again I don't want to deprive myself of hanging out with him and getting to know him since he's so fun to be around, good to look at, and decent in bed. 

    So what do you think I should do? Stop sleeping with him? Or is it okay to continue to sleep with him just as long as I don't expect anything serious to come from it? Should I talk to him about it? If so, what should i say? Have you ever been in this situation before?

    Any input is appreciated, thanks guys.

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    I've never been in this particular situation, but I think it's up to you whether you want to continue the fun now only to most likely be really hurt later, or stop sleeping with him, feel hurt now, and move on with your life.  It's up to you.  I know it's really hard, because you don't want to give up the person who makes you happy now, but if you think it's going to cause you more pain in the end, it might just be better to end it now.

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    wow thanks so much for your advice. you really laid the cards out for me in a clear way and now i think i know what to do. thanks Happy

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    I was in your position and let me tell ya if you believe you are going to have a future with him you are wrong. The two of you went into this with an understanding of being just fuck buds and nothing more. I've been there, developed the feelings and finally moved on knowing he wanted nothing more. I'm better for having done this because I have met the man of my dreams. Had I stayed being a fuck bud and hoping, I would have missed out on my the real love of my life.

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    Thanks :) This helped A LOT

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