Q. So basically my boyfriend screwed up, I think. I was on his email for some dumb reason(myspace) and I just browsed through the trash and saw he was talking to this girl about having sexual dreams with her and whatever. I was going to end it that night, but the next day he said it was his brother. I guess his brother is saying he is getting revenge on us by doing this because we messed up his chance with this girl. I personally think I would just have my brother cover up for me? Am i right?

So I let that go, but then I was at his house and we were looking through his pics. I found a whole folder of pictures of naked girls. Okay...I understand it's a boy thing. It's this thing between him and his friend. But then in a different folder I found pics of his latest ex (eep in mind he is right next to me). I looked to see when they were added, only about a month ago. And all he could say is "I know it was wrong. Sorry." And he wont tell me why he did it, he just says "I don't know." So i'm here like wow thanks, I mean we had one picture together on there but the rest were other girls, either naked or his ex.

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Q. A few months ago I bought two tickets to go see Paramore and You Me At Six for the beginning of December. My boyfriend and I were gonna go, then we split up for a few days a couple of weeks ago with no inclination that I would be getting back with him. I then needed to find someone to go and see Paramore with me, I wouldn't want to leave it at the last minute and not have anyone to go with therefore one of my good friend's said he would go with me. He loves Paramore and he had been having a not so good week so I pretty much put a great big smile on his face. Problem is I ended up getting back with my boyfriend and I can pretty much guess he's going to be expecting that he'll still be going with me to the gig. If you were in my situation would you remain loyal to you're friend and take him with you or would you tell you're friend the circumstance's and take your boyfriend instead?More Here...

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Q. What is verbal abuse ? Is it calling your SO names? here is the definition I got :"Verbal abuse is a pattern of behavior that can seriously interfere with one's positive emotional development and, over time, can lead to significant detriment to one's self-esteem, emotional well-being, and physical state. It has been further described as an ongoing emotional environment organized by the abuser for the purposes of control." I think I'm being verbally abused by my boyfriend. He calls my retarded and say I'm a dumbass but that's sometimes how we joke around. But now I guess I'm getting on his nerves cause today he told me only to text him if  I need something and that he doesn't need a text every 10 minutes. Sometimes I don't know what to do . Any advice ? More Here...

Q. I'm going to make this really simple: My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago and now basically refuses to talk to me. I'm desperate to get her back, but don't know how. I've tried to let her know how I feel through various methods (text messages, notes, calls),but nothing. What can I do to show her that I still love her and want her to come back to me?

A. I think you've made your feelings obvious. Now the ball is in her court, so to speak. But considering that she broke up with you and is trying to cut of contact, I'd suggest you give her some space. She broke up with you for a reason, hopefully you know what it is. It's not likely that chasing after her this way will bring her back to you, it's probably just going to push her further away. Heartbreak is an awful feeling, but it passes. If you back off now, you'll get through it with some pride. Desperate ploys will only stir pity for you.

Q. I am a sixteen year old guy that has never been kissed, never been in a relationship, don't really talk to girls. I want to change this, but I don't know where to start. I'm very shy and find it hard to approach girls. But I don't want to graduate high school completely inexperienced.

There's no one in particular I like right now, but I'd like to know how to approach girls in general. I've never been able to work up the confidence to do this. How can I work on this? More Here...